Yesterday we visited the co-housing project at Laughton Lodge near Lewes in Sussex. We’d been told there was a 5-bed place for sale which sounded quite appealing but it was a subdivided unit which I found cramped. I need generous space.
We went on a beautiful May afternoon (which is as dumb as going to the supermarket when you’re starving. Always shop when replete, and visit places to live on a miserable wet February day).

It’s an impressive set-up. They bought a 1930s hospital set in 23 acres, converted it and added some new builds. They’ve got lots right. There are a series of warm, well-insulated cosy light living spaces. The culture feels good. People are welcoming and open-hearted wherever you go. The day we were there children played happily and independently all over the site in several natural groups. I must have seen half a dozen musical instruments in a 90 minute visit.
Common parts include a hall, kids’ room, footie pitch and rented office accomodation. Cars and a vast array of bikes are parked at the edge of the site (but you can get close access too). There’s a footpath to the school in the local village.
As gardens have grown up the old hospital now feels lived in and shabby in an appealing way. Some of the courtyards have acquired a fair amount of character. There are places to sit out, people reading or doing homework, playgrounds, a trampoline, treehouses as well as allotments, chickens and horses.
As my late and now bestselling friend Richard Craze put it, you’d be out of your townie mind to think this was Utopia or an easy choice. Several people echo the view that city dwellers can be unrealistic about moving to the countryside. Co-housing is not independent living, nor is it the commune style of shared housing. Decision-making with consensus is tortuous.
People are subdividing some homes. There’s clearly a financial incentive for this, but I doubt it makes aesthetic or lifestyle sense. I fear it rides on the back of what the community offers without adding to it. No doubt it’s subject to joint decision-making, and perhaps some of the profits form development get put back.
They have water from a borehole, and made the laudable decision to do community heating and hot water with wood chips. But they dont produce their own biomass and have some problems with external woodchip supply. It’s not yet clear to me how the shared economics work, but I can imagine it’s hard to upgrade the central facilities if some of the residents are feeling hard up. But they have some rural office space they rent out.

It gave us a huge amount to think about. It feels like it has been a great deal of work for those involved; they’ve faced difficulties, and continue to. They need more trees (and I didnt see any apple trees, but maybe I missed them).
Afterwards we went to Lewes, which I normally see once a year by night on November 5th. Mulling over the afternoon with a pint of seasonal mild at the nearby Harvey’s brewery it felt like the Laughton community has the right way to live. Definitely worth persevering (not that they can turn back), possibly worth joining (if they had a fullsize place for sale and if they’d have us) and probably worth emulating. Best of luck to all at Laughton! Thanks for being so open and welcoming!